Staying at home is definitely a blessing and a privilege, but by no means does that mean it’s an easy job to take on. Whether you are a new mom or have always been a stay at home mom or you’re transitioning from a working mom, there will surely be some challenges thrown along your path. Anyone who thinks staying at home is a piece of cake has it coming for them. I have gone through different phases of motherhood and I assure you that staying at home is one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done. I’m the kind of person that needs to be on a schedule and wants to feel like I am accomplishing something. It’s part of how I keep a positive outlook on life and it’s a constant confidence booster. My kids also love knowing what’s coming next and a stay at home mom schedule gives them comfort that they can predict what their day looks like.
The Stay at Home Mom Schedule
That Will Make you a Happier Mom
Most Important Factors When Creating a Stay at Home Mom Schedule
- Step 1 Write It Out and Make it Visible.
If it’s not written down and easily seen (all the time), it is easy to forget. Write or type your schedule out and make it fun & bold! Post it on your refrigerator or set it up on your counter. It will be a reminder throughout the day of what you want to be getting done.
- Step 2 – Fill in the Must Do’s.
Every mom has her own list of essential things to get done during the day. This will be the skeleton of your stay at home mom schedule.
- School Drop Off
- Naptime for little ones (and mama in my case)
- School Pickup
Think about what the best wake up times for you are, when you have to drop off and pick up kids, and what you want your meal times to be.
- Step 3 – Write down the other tasks you need to get done in your week.
- Grocery Shopping
- Class Parent
- Cleaning (If your kids are old enough, make sure they are apart of this task)
- Taking kids to practice
- Me-Time (it’s Important)
- Step 4 – Fill in these tasks but Don’t Overdo it –
Look, we all want to be super mom, but you and your kids will be much happier if you take some things off your plate and are more present when they are around. So, don’t overfill your schedule to the point of exhaustion. No one wins in that case.
- Step 5 – Know It’s Not Locked In.
Having a schedule is nice, but kids will be kids. Leave some room for flexibility in there and don’t get down on yourself if some nights dinner just doesn’t get done or circle time doesn’t go as planned. If things go off course, don’t abandon ship, just adjust and keep moving forward. You got this.
Bonus Tips that Stay at Home Moms Should Not Ignore!
- Sleep Matters – The very foundation of having a schedule honestly depends on firm sleep schedules for everybody. It takes some time and maybe a little struggle at first to get these set in stone, but I promise you it is so worth it in the long run. Don’t forget mom needs to get her sleep too. It will make you happier and more productive.
- My quick thoughts on Naps for Mom- For some reason I feel like our society looks as naps as some sort of weakness only for toddlers, and I used to be in that same boat. My husband is lucky enough to be able to come home from work early and he would take a 20 minute nap everyday. I used to scoff at him, yet then I noticed I kept asking him how he has so much energy. He would say it is his 20 minute naps and finally I gave it a try. I set an alarm for 25 minutes giving me 5 minutes to fall asleep. Those 25 minutes are simply amazing and I have never felt so refreshed and will never go back to not napping. My tip- take a short nap (Long ones will make you very groggy – so keep it to 20-25 minutes)
Here is How I Break Down my Stay at Home Mom Schedule
- (30 Minutes Before Kids Wake Up) 6:15 AM:
Wake up and have some mama time. I know you might be thinking, “No way, I’m sleeping until someone yanks me out of the bed.” I promise you that even 5 minutes of awake alone time will set your day on the right path. Read a couple pages of a book, do a mini yoga session, write in your journal. Heck, even just make your bed so you can climb back into it at the end of the day. Whatever it takes for you to feel like you’ve got a little self-care in.
- 6:45 AM: Everyone will be waking up around this time. If you have early risers like my kids, set this as the time they are allowed to come out of their room. If they wake up before this time then they can have quite alone time in their room. Routines will vary for every family depending on what needs to be done and different ages, but set up a morning routine that works for yours best. This will include making their own beds, getting dressed, brushing teeth, and doing hair.
- 7:00 AM: Breakfast! It’s easy to skip over, but it’s such an important meal that both parents and kiddos should make sure they eat something. There’s plenty of breakfast recipes like premade burritos and sandwiches that we live off of. Teach everyone how to clean up their breakfast and wipe the counters down before heading out the door.
- 7:30 AM: School Drop Offs.
- 8:30 AM: Whether all your kids are in school or your toddlers are still at home, let this be a quiet time. They can color, read a book, or maybe even watch a little TV. As for mom, this is a good time to throw some clothes in the laundry or do the dishes.
- 10:00 AM: Snack time!
- 10:30 AM: Everyone will probably be energized after a snack, so this is a great time to do a circle time! Circle time means going over letters or numbers with flashcards (or however you choose to review) with your little ones. This circle time can also be used for arts and crafts. This is something I learned from my mom who has a preschool teacher for years and then stayed home with all my siblings and I. It’s really awesome to be part of your kids learning, especially those foundational things.
- 11:30 AM: Prep and eat lunch. Bonus tip; pack your school-aged kids lunches for the next day at this time. It’s better than rushing to do it in the morning.
- 12:30 PM: You have finally made it to nap time. Congratulations! Make sure you have a wind-down routine set in place. It will help your kids time clock to know that sleep is coming. For mama, get in a quick cat nap but don’t sleep for longer than 20 minutes. It will be a nice refresher but it won’t be the kind of nap that makes you feel even more tired. After your cat nap, start prepping dinner. It’s early still obviously, but you can chop fruits/veggies, marinate meats, and in the winters even throw a whole crock pot meal together.
- 2:00 PM: Get ready for school pick up and head out.
- 3:15 PM: After-school snack and outdoor play time.
- 4:30 PM: The most dreaded part of the day for all, homework time. And for mom, this is a good time to put finishing touches on dinner.
- 5:30 PM: Dinner time! Rotate who sets the table and does clean up nightly. Sit down at the table and enjoy this time together. I love hearing about all my kids days and I think they appreciate space to tell us all their stories.
- 6:15 PM: Dishes – Kids put away their dishes and thank mom for a delicious meal 😉
- 7:00 PM: Wind downtime. Just like a set in the stone morning routine, have a nightly routine in place that everyone can follow. This will include bath time, brushing teeth, pajamas, and some reading time.
Other Tips to Help You Succeed – Teamwork & Creating Systems
Keeping your house organized means systems and it also means you can’t do it on your own. If you have kids old enough, get them used to help out with daily chores that are always done at a certain time. Also, it helps to have your spouse do some tasks before or after work.
Here are some routines that happen in our household: (we do rotate weekly but this gives you an idea
- Our Oldest Son empties the dishwasher every morning
- The youngest daughter makes sure the dogs have food and water every morning
- Our two middle boys are in charge of taking out the trash and sweeping up after dinner.
- Everyone cannot play video games until after dinner and room has to be clean and homework done
Stay at Home Mom Schedule – Laundry
I could write a whole post on laundry to be perfectly honest as I have tried so many systems. I am embarrassed to say it but my husband came up with the best system for our household.
My husband says the biggest time suck for us when we are doing laundry is figuring out which clothes belong to which kid. We do have 5 kids so that could be why it’s such a challenge. So we break up our laundry into batches that can’t be confused.
- Oldest Son & Youngest Daughter – Two Loads (One Batch of Darks & Lights)
- Middle Son & Mom – Two Loads (One Darks – One Lights)
- Dad & Middle Daughter – Two Loads (One Darks – One Lights)
- Youngest Son & Towels – One Load
- Sheets – One Load
That is 8 fun loads of laundry for the 7 of us and we are just weekend warriors when it comes to laundry. We start Friday when they get home from school and them slowly finish through the weekend.
What Tips & Tricks do you have for your Stay at Home Mom Schedule
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