For us we didn’t even use our stroller until the weather hit the 90′s. I don’t care how “attached” you are, no one enjoys being strapped to another person when it’s that hot!

For me, due to devastatingly low supply, a good breast pump was a need. Other women never touch theirs.

Our house is old and has been through many renovations. Our daughter’s bedroom is on the other side of a brick wall, so a baby monitor was a must for us, once she was moved into her own room. Others will have different sleeping arrangements.

But if I absolutely had to answer this question I would say a few things. Baby needs clothes. Even if they’re born in the summer, chances are they’ll be in air conditioning at some time. This includes safe sleeping clothes, sleep sacks with a removable swaddler are my signature baby shower gift. Diapers of course, be it cloth or disposable. A food source (ditto the boppy even if you’re not bfing, you can use them for modified tummy time, to prop baby and make googley faces at each other, and later as a bumper when they’re learning how to sit). A car seat, even if you don’t own a car. You will at some point get a ride from someone. I would argue that one form of baby holder (bouncy chair, swing, playmat) is necessary because sometimes you want to blowdry your hair, and you will eventually need to cook without the microwave.

Let’s not forget things like a good thermometer and vaseline, infant dosage fever reducer, and diaper rash cream.

It’s so different for everyone, my little girl is just turning one and we only ordered a stroll last week, the ergo was just easier for our city and lifestyle!

Ps I’m not sure if I would keep the picture posted of the baby in the box. I just see a baby choking on all those peanuts. eek!