Comments on: Unexpected home birth: I hate it when that happens!

By: RookieMom Heather

RookieMom Heather — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 15:19:11 +0000

@Rebecca, I’m so happy for you that it turned out well. My worries about superfast home birth turned out to be unfounded for this babe after all. He was born early, slow, and induced.

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 13:49:47 +0000

This happened to me too! Just over an hour of contractions and out she came. It wasn’t nearly as scary as I would have expected, and now it’s our family’s best story (even my now 4 year old loves to talk about the night his sister came out of mommy’s bottom – yep, he remembers!).

By: K

Fri, 05 Aug 2011 00:39:07 +0000

I’m one of those people who had their baby at home by mistake. It may seem scary but it was actually quite nice, other than the 5 minutes of panic. Seriously though, I wouldn’t worry about it and deal with it if it happens.

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Claudia — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 22:44:58 +0000

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By: MamaT

MamaT — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 05:03:18 +0000

Plan a home birth. Instead of worrying about getting to the hospital, let the midwife worry about getting to you.
If you’re even remotely curious or interested and are having a healthy pregnancy it could be a wonderful option. I say this as a mom who has had one hospital birth and one planned home birth, and although my hospital birth was fine (no hospital horror stories), my home birth was amazing. I attribute much of it’s amazingness to feeling really in control and supported in trusting my birthing ability. In addition, my least favorite part about my hospital birth was breaking my labor stride to drive to the hospital. That was 23 years ago and I still remember it like it was yesterday. Anyway just wanted to throw that option out there, as I noticed it hadn’t been mentioned. Happy birthing.

By: fraida flaishman

fraida flaishman — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 03:32:19 +0000

My second child’s labor and delivery lasted a full hour. We made it to the hospital with 8 minutes to spare, minus my obstetrician. A midwife that I never met, present with her private client, delivered my baby. I have been using a midwife ever since. The bottom line is that the next four babies came with much more time to spare. I wasted a lot of time and energy worrying about an emergency home birth that never happened. So I say go ahead and prepare for the worst but don’t worry about it. Each labor progresses at it’s own unique pace.

By: KD

KD — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 00:08:48 +0000

I agree with VDog – go to the hospital as soon as you think you might be ready. I almost had my second at home. My contractions started at 2 minutes apart but I waited 25 minutes before agreeing to leave the house (I just couldn’t believe that they were that close so I had to keep counting). By the time I came to my senses and realized I was in transition it was too late. A quick dialing husband and even quicker ambulance driver got us to the hospital just in time for her to arrive with one push.

By: tobasco

tobasco — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 19:12:28 +0000

I imagine the shoelaces are for tying the umbilical cord? There is no harm in leaving it – in fact many women ask that it be allowed to stop beating before it’s cut. Aside from a sliiiiightly higher chance of jaundice there is no reason it needs to be cut immediately.

Ditto the first poster about the warm water.

Honestly, the only things I could see that you would need would be a phone to call 911 and guide you (or whoever is helping you) through the process, and one of those nose sucker thingies to help clear the airway once the kid is born. Place it on your bare chest with a blanket over both of you, and its body temperature will be naturally regulated.

If you are truly worried about this, I would suggest reading “Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth” – Ina May Gaskin is a world renowned midwife. At the very least it will help you get some faith in your body and ease your mind that you can in fact do this should you have to.

My first (and so far only) child was born after 53 hours of labor, so I always joke that my next one is going to be an unplanned homebirth, just to balance things out!

By: VDog

VDog — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 18:14:25 +0000

Um, just head to the hospital before you think you need to? Stay close to home in those final weeks? Call an ambulance if you need to? Have Whitney prepped & ready to watch kids or take you to the hospital if needed?

Use “The Secret” style positive visualization to picture yourself getting to the hospital early and having a great delivery there?

Can’t say this is one I’m anxious about, but I was at the hospital for two weeks before my first birth so I can’t really say. lol

By: Alison

Alison — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 18:07:33 +0000

My maid-of-honor had an unexpected home birth with her first! Yikes! So for her second, she actually planned an induction at the hospital. Not the most ideal birth experience, but far better than repeating her first one!!

By: Jodi

Jodi — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 17:49:40 +0000

I suppose doctors/midwives would use hot water to sterilize things, but I’m pretty sure the reason women wanted the hot water at births was for a different reason.

Washcloths soaked hot water and placed “down there” while pushing feels A-MAZ-ING. That alone is why I refuse to go back to a hospital to give ever again. I am being serious.

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Not A Rookie Mom
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