Woohoo! It’s our fifth Fearless Friday post, and it’s from Sonja, with whom we first became acquainted when we admired her fabric alphabet collection.
Last week, I took my 27-month old son to his tot gymnastics class. Just like every week, except this week… without a diaper. (This is the part where if there was a sound track to this, it’d go DUN DUN DUUUUUUN.)
He’d been wearing underwear — deliciously tiny, cute underwear, to be exact — around the house for about two weeks with varying levels of dryness. Basically, as long as I remembered to take him to the bathroom at regular intervals, he’d do his business there. Otherwise, he’d start going in his pants, then come running so I could get him to the bathroom where he’d finish up. At any rate, he seemed ready enough to leave the house without water-proofness.
So I took a deep breath, packed a few spare outfits (yes, more than one, because I was afraid), and got on my way. I took Noah to the bathroom before we left the house, and then again when we got to the community center. All of seven minutes later (I may have been a tiny bit nervous). I took him again after class. So far, so clean.
Then, we got on our way to run some errands. First stop: drug store. We quickly made our way through the store and paid. I was spurred on by mental images of Noah’s bladder as a ticking bomb. As I put the bag in the cart, my heart sank. Noah smelled distinctly, well, poopy.
Even though he insisted that it was just a “wittle fart, Mama!,” I took him to the (decidedly not as nice and clean as the community center) bathroom, where it turned out that the bit about the fart had been entirely true. And then, something truly amazing happened. Noah pooped into the disgusting CVS toilet! I was totally blown away!
Buoyed by our success, we headed for the car and then the grocery store. We made it home with clean, dry pants, which was a really, really nice start to our foray into leaving the house without diapers. We have since had a few accidents in public, one of which taught me that keeping an extra pair of shoes in the car is not a bad idea, but it’s been not nearly as dramatic as I somehow expected it to be. And while we still have days with accidents (sometimes more than one in the same day), I know that we’ve accomplished a solid start to life without diapers. Just the thought of it fills me with awe. A Life Without Diapers. Wow.
*For the record: the following week, he peed his pants so often that I did a load of laundry that consisted of about 80% Noah-pants – it’s a work in progress!
Go, Sonja, Go! This post is part of Fearless Fridays, a series sponsored by method, who makes a hand sanitizer among other wondrous products that you might consider buying if you are living with someone who poops in their pants. Our brave mama Sonja blogs at GirlWithGreenCard.














We’re about to enter this stage ourselves…. I hope. It’s encouraging to hear about other’s experiences. Thanks for the post!
Yay for Noah! We’ve had very few accidents outside the home which is/was awesome. And my rule: only one pair of undies per day. Pants we have lots of but extra tiny undies are hard to find for my little man’s little bum. It’s great to not have to wash diapers! At least for a few months for me anyway lol I get a whole… 5ish months before diapers come into my life again.
I found undies for Noah at H&M at a really good price. We also got some Gymboree ones handed down that actually fit. Noah’s tiny… I have the one pair of undies rule when we go out now. I’m no longer carrying half his closet with me.
Sonja, I was going to say that the fact that you brought more than one change of clothes showed bravery in my book! (I’m still at least 6 mos away from starting potty training, though, so I don’t know)
I always find the tiny undies on clearance at Gymboree. I have maybe 4 pairs for Kevin (who only runs around the house in them when he feels like it, no ‘potty training’ yet)
American Apparel also has adorable tiny undies. And I swear one of these days I’m gonna take out the sewing machine and make tiny boxer undies for him…
Love the story! What an accomplishment and committment on your part. I need to gear up and just do it with my tot boy:)