by Heather
I got a great massage gift certificate as a “congrats for pushing that baby out” gift from a good friend and am sad to admit that it took me many months to get my tired butt in there… don’t do that to yourself.
You deserve it. Have your partner watch junior and book a day of relaxation for yourself (or with some friends) and get a massage, facial, whatever feels great to you. Go on, book it. Happy birth day to you.
And don’t tell anyone that I had to use the pump in the bathroom beforehand for fear of pain and/or spraying. Thanks.
by Whitney
Black beans are healthy and fun to eat. It looks pretty funny when there is black bean drool rolling down your child’s chin, and funny might be the best you’re going to do on a Friday night these days.
When we take Julian to Picante, he can eat like a real human - beans, tortilla pieces, shredded cheese, avocado.
by Heather
Have the day-to-day tactics gotten in the way of finding the joy of motherhood? Quit complaining and only count the smiles and funny moments for a day.
For you snarky mamas who write your own blogs, frame your day as a series of highlights. Margo at Of Fish and Family shows us how with these two posts:
The Proud Moments and the Less So
The Icing on The Cake
Once you’ve tried out the highlight format, come back and post your link here.
by Heather
We had some serious family pressure to name our child George if the little bean turned out to be a boy. It’s a family tradition on my husband’s side, and uh, reality check for me, the pregnant newlywed– I’m part of that family.
Our response was to be so secretive about the potential names for our baby that nobody was allowed to know. I had heard from other parents that no matter how well-meaning, people just can’t keep it in with regards to names.
Plus, I figured if we wanted to name our son Floyd Feffernuss Finkelstein, his grandparents would get on board once they met him, so we kept all real options in the vault.
It is stressful to think of choosing the wrong name for your new child. Nobody wants the burden of dooming a new baby to a life of horrid nicknames, misspellings, and missed promotions. I am a methodical and scientific person, so the idea of a rules-based baby name selection process really appealed to me.
I found two books that lead you through identifying the ideal candidates for your baby name.
The Baby Name Wizard: A Magical Method for Finding the Perfect Name for Your Baby offers a wide array of name-choices based on current and emerging trends. Do you fancy your child a Moe, Morgan, or Moses? Do you want to honor someone in your family with a name that’s close but not exact? Understand the styles you like and dislike. The author also helps with suggested sibling names based on the kids already in your family. (Use the companion Name Voyager online to see a graph of name’s popularity over time. Super fun!)
The Perfect Baby Name is an awesome resource to help you choose a name that rolls right off the tongue. The premise is that good superstar-type names are phonetic and rhythmic matches in the way you pronounce your first and last name together.
Find your very own Elvis Presley or Marylin Monroe or at least what sounds good with your particular last name challenges.
